AGE doesn't matter if you truly love each other.

Argumentative Essay

     Some people say that it is not good to love a person older than you but it really depends on who will you choose to be with. Nowadays, relationship with an older guy or girl is very rampant. They seek for partners because of different reasons. Some will say that it’s not that good to have an older partner but some may say otherwise.  We cannot praise them all.  We have the freedom to choose who will be the person we’ll love. Even if others will say negative things or criticize you, they cannot change the fact that you already did fall in love with an older guy or girl. I know that relationships would be better if one is older and there’s nothing wrong about it..

    In a relationship, does age really matter? Some may look at it as one of their standards because they might think that it’s really hard to be in a relationship when your age brackets are different. One of the reasons why some people try to avoid an older partner is because they will have different set of preferences in life. Older guys or girls tend to be old-fashioned and still follows their tradition when it comes to commitments or other stuffs regarding their relationships. He/she can’t relate to the new trends lovers do today. Other people will say that when you have an older partner, you’re relationship is more prone to cheating. Older man or woman knows all the twist and turns when it comes to handling a relationship. They know how to keep a secret to their partner. They know how gullible young lovers are. And they abused it. And if your partner is famous or wealthy, nosy people will make stories about you that you’re just after his or her money and fame. This is more likely to happen in show business, where some sexy stars have their wealthy partners. Whether it’s a politician, a businessman, or a married man. We have different tastes when it comes to finding our partners so it’s really up to us.

     There’s an advantage when you’re partner is older than you. He/she is mature enough to know things about having a commitment. They’re not childish anymore to do some petty stuff in your relationship. They can handle relationships well because of many experiences from the past. They’ve been there and done that so they know how to hold on to a commitment. And they tend to be more serious when it comes to relationship. Playing is not in their vocabulary anymore. They will love you deeply and they will take care of your heart. In some television shows, they interviewed people who have an older husband or wife. There, the interviewee said that it is good to have an older partner. They are not childish anymore and love them with all of their heart.   Some people were lucky to have this kind of spouse.

     It is better to have someone to love that is older than you than having a commitment to a person same as your age that will only be pain in your head because of lacking some experience.

You’ll be sure that your partner will treat you well because he/she knows the good things to do so your relationship will last. They know how to satisfy us because they know how to be hurt because from their experience from the past. They will not try to change us because he/she is not that immature to think for his own benefits only. They will love you for who you are and accept all your flaws because that’s the real meaning of love.  And lastly, you will have a great and even a better future with him/her. Older partners are responsible enough to provide us the things we need. There will be times that they cannot give stuffs but what matters most is that they will do everything to make us happy and contented.

     We cannot avoid the criticism we’ll hear if we have an older guy or girl for a partner but there’s nothing wrong with loving a person twice your age. They are way better than young guys who know less when it comes in handling a relationship. They can provide us the things we need and never let us fall. Just like those people with an older partner who were interviewed in some shows, we can find our own perfect guy. We can find our own happiness and forget what others are saying. Having an older partner can really raise everyone’s eyebrows but what’s important is who will we choose to be with.